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looking forward: 2010
First, I thought of creating a list of my new year’s resolution but I decided against it because of two reasons. One, it think it is too late. The first month of the year’s gone and no, I won’t be creating a New Year’s resolution for the Chinese New Year (which is next week, I think). Two, I am, anyhow, not good at keeping resolutions so why bother? I won’t put myself under the pressure of having to resolve things within a time frame.
winter in graz
But I will list my plans. I like plans. At least with plans, there are always alternatives if they don’t work out. Resolutions, on the other hand, sound so drastic. Like, I “need” to change things or else I will be the same person I was in the previous year and my life will stay the way it is. Resolutions are more like promises to yourself you have to keep. They just have to be fulfilled.
Who wants such pressure? Obviously, not me.
So here are my plans for this year.
- Put the house together in accordance to what we need and what we can afford. My husband and I just bought a house and like many other young couples who are from humble families, most of our savings went to the purchase of the house. It was also necessary for us to take a housing loan to cover that which can’t be covered by our savings. The house is “Belastfertig”. That means, it is completely finished outside but it still needs work inside. The heating, electrical circuits, floor, kitchen, toilet, bathroom, and the painting still need to be done and those are what we are working on right now. We decided to do some things ourselves to save some money and because we already have a very handsome credit, we agreed not to take more credit. Hopefully, we will still be able to save money for some nice stuff for the house.
Alternative: if in case, we are not able to save money, we can always use our old stuff and be content with it until we are able to afford fancier things.
- Make teaching props during the summer break. The most difficult part of my job is preparing teaching materials. It is taking so much of my energy and my time so to make my life easier for the next school year; I plan to prepare my teaching props this summer.
Alternative: If by chance, I can’t find time to do this during the summer break, I’ll just have to be content with the teaching props available at the learning center or I’ll just have to accept that my second year of teaching won’t be that much easier from my first year.
Those are the two main things. The less import things are as follows.
- I plan to visit home.
- I plan to take more pictures. I am living in a very nice city so why not compile my impressions of it?
- I plan to save for an iMac. I do have a lappy and it is still very good but an iMac is just so… beautiful. I don’t plan to buy it this year. I just would like to save for it.
- I plan to learn how to bake. I am already excited because I am getting my very own kitchen soon! With all the things I need for baking and cooking.
- I plan to start a garden. The house we bought has a tiny garden! Excited, excited, excited!
Those are my plans and some of them I share with my husband.
I know. You’re probably a bit disappointed. I imagine you saying like… that’s it?!? Really? What about having a baby?
I’ve been asked about that question several times.
Baby…. hmmmm.
That will have to wait a bit.
I don’t know when exactly but I still have enough hormone pills for six months. Haha.
Seriously though, we think we are ready but we still have wait until the house is ready and then we can start trying. *wink
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looking back: 2009
Looking back at the previous year, I’d say that it is one of the years (2007 being the other one) that left a big impact on my life. There are a lot of things that happened in this year that changed the way I look at life and at people. I hope that all the experiences in this year have also made me a year wiser and not only a year older.
Here are the things I did last year that I think contributed much to the person I am this new year.
- Successfully completed my German competency course. It wasn’t easy especially because the interest to learn this particular language was not there. There was only the need to learn it. My attitude towards it was: I am learning it because I have to and not because I think it’s fun. I could have stopped sometime in the middle of the course if I wouldn’t have cared wasting the money spent on the course (it was expensive). But there came a time when I started to appreciate it and later on, I am really glad that I did it.
- Left China for good. I could say that in my three years of stay in China, a lot of bad things happened to me but I could not deny that the best thing happened to me there as well. So it’s like, one best thing evens out all the bad experiences I had in China. China has been good to me…to us. It wasn’t always easy (especially for my Austrian husband) but living there was very beneficial for us. In China, we experience comforts we could never afford here in Europe. I don’t know if I will ever go back there but China and the people we met there who became good friends of ours will always have a space in our hearts.
- Started a life in Austria. I had my doubts. I doubted if I ever could make it here. If I ever could get a job. If I ever could find friends. If I ever could call it a home. This stage of my life is still a work in progress. There are still a lot about this country and its people that I have to learn. I might not like or like what I’ll learn but so far, Austria has been good to me and I think that I am in the positive way to clearing all my doubts.
- Cut down on my blogging. This was mainly because I was busy with other things. I had to prioritize stuff and that means my blogging has to be given up to some extent but because old habits die hard, I am still here and blogging. In fact, I started another blog.
- Learned how to drive and acquired a driving license. I am from a country that sees being able to drive a car as a luxury not necessity. Earlier in my life, I gave learning how to drive some thoughts but I never considered it as something I must do. That’s until I married an Austrian. Understandably, it was not easy for me. The theory lessons were done in Austrian dialect so I have to record each lesson and listen to it over and over again so I could understand or, at least, have an idea what the lesson was about. Another thing that made it difficult was: I think I have no talent at all with driving. It is already more than four months since I acquired my license and yet, I still can’t drive well.
- Found a job in Austria. I needed three long months before I landed a job. Within these depressing months, my self-esteem hit its all time low. I am just so glad that I have a loving husband. Right now, I am very much contented with my teaching job. I am not teaching in a regular school but all the same, I am still teaching and that’s great. It’s really a huge blessing that I still can practice my profession in this country without going through the complicated nostrification (educational degree comparison and evaluation).
- Experienced a car accident. It didn’t do me any damage—no scratch. Nothing. It just left me a little bit of a shock. It was not a major accident but it left a major impact on how I look at life. I often hear clichés like life is too short, enjoy the things you have while you still can, and etcetera but I never really cared. I mean, I know they that these lines are true but I didn’t feel that they should also apply to me but that changed. After my accident, I value my life and all the persons and the things I have more.
the night i thought i died
I was awakened from a nightmare when my husband’s alarm clock reliably rang yesterday morning. Before slipping back to sleep, I was able to mumble the summary of my terrifying dream to him. He kissed me and assured me that it was just a bad dream then he went on with his morning routine. I continued to sleep until I felt his goodbye kiss lightly on my lips.
The rest of the day went by just like all my other Mondays. My morning was spent on grocery shopping and I went to my classes in the afternoon. The only thing that wasn’t usual was our learning center’s early Christmas dinner in the evening.
Right after my last class, I and two of my colleagues, headed off to the place. We drove in a convoy. Tanya was driving in front because she’s the one who knows where the restaurant is. I was driving behind her and Kristin was driving behind me. It was a snowy evening and we were driving on a 30-zone winding street fully covered with snow. There was almost no traffic so I could understand that clearing this street off snow doesn’t happen in a frequent interval.
We were driving slowly and I remember Tanya being 20 meters ahead of me. Then it happened on a slightly inclined curve. The curve, although slightly descending, wasn’t that sharp at all so I am absolutely sure that I didn’t do any harsh maneuver with the steering wheel. For the life of me, I can’t understand why it happened. I just felt that my car glided, spin, hit a post, and rebounded back on the road.
When I felt the car slipped, I got nervous and in my nervousness, I left the gas pedal and the steering wheel completely letting the car control itself. It happened too fast. I didn’t even have the time to scream. The next thing I know was I was facing Kristin who is getting out of her car. How did that happened? She’s supposed to be driving behind me.
And then it dawned on me. I just had an accident. I could be dead now.
So, am I dead now?
I made a quick self-check. Does any part of my body hurt? What about bleeding? No? Really? Okay, good.
Then I went out of the car to check it. Around that time, Kristin’s worry stricken face was already right beside me. She tried to do her own physical injury check on me while shooting rapid questions which I could only summarize as, “Are you ok?”
From the look of it, she was even more shaken than me. Later on, she explained that being the one driving behind me, she saw how the whole thing happened and it looked far worse that it is.
The car, as expected, received some damages. The plate number in front is crushed and separated from the car. The bumper obtained some scratches and maybe some dents. I picked up the plate number and put it on my dashboard. There was no way I could attach it to the car so I placed it where it could be easily seen.
After checking the surroundings for damages (there was none, the post looked perfect ha!), we drove to the restaurant which is just 100 meters away from where the accident happened. I wanted to call my husband immediately after arriving at the place but Tanya advised me to calm down a little bit before calling him and that’s what I did. Later on, I realized that it is better not to tell him until I am home.
Soon enough, dinner conversations filled the air making the whole mood lighter.
By the time we were ready to go home; I was relieved to see the street wet and not snow covered. If it would have been otherwise, I wouldn’t have the nerves to drive home. I was still terrified.
Upon reaching our building’s parking place, I took out my phone to call my husband and I’ve seen that he tried to call me several times. I also read his messages asking me if I am okay and why I won’t answer his calls. I finally called him and told him about the whole thing. Then I asked him to come down from our flat so he could take a look at the car.
I know he will not be angry and I was right.
When he saw me, he gave me a tight hug.
He said that all along, he had the feeling that something bad had happened. Then he told me that he’s thankful I am safe. He didn’t bother taking a look at the car but he promised to do it in the morning.
We talked more about it before going to bed and we agreed that I am not to drive until I practice driving on their company’s test track. That’s what we will do this weekend. I will practice driving on simulated snow and ice covered streets to get a better feeling of the car on a slippery road and to learn how to react.
The shock was completely gone after I had talked to him. The release gave me an utter sense of my being. I am alive and I am cuddled perfectly warm in my husband’s loving arms. The feeling of closeness made me truly thankful that I am alive. I thought that it would be so unfair to die when I am this happy.
Before saying our goodnights, he told me something that made my hair stand on end. He told me about the nightmare I told him that very morning. I can’t remember it completely anymore but according to him, this is what said.
“They said that the accident was so bad they needed to cut my legs off to take me out of the car.”
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p.s. this is unedited
Read Morea modern classic
I’ve heard about “The Great Gatsby” before but I never had the chance to read it until recently. I discovered a new copy of the book in my brother-in-law’s bookshelf. He’s supposed to write a literary analysis on it for his English subject. When I asked him if I could borrow the book, he gave it to me willingly and told me that it looks like he didn’t spend money on the book for nothing after all because there is somebody who likes to read it. He later confessed that he based his literary analysis on a translated summary of the story he found in the internet.
I could understand why he did that because after reading the book, I can tell that it is not an easy read for 15-year old non native English speakers. I, myself, had the difficulty reading it to the very end. I don’t know why. I suppose I’m not for these kinds of reads. I was, of course, able to follow the story but I just know that this literary piece has more to it than the story itself and I am not the kind to probe into the meanings of the things in between the lines. In short, I don’t over analyze. When I read a book, I am all for the story and the experience I get while reading it.
“The Great Gatsby” is a modern classic. I’ve read it. I think the story is very interesting but I’ll leave it to the intellectuals to discuss it.
Read Morethe twilight saga
When Twilight came out, I didn’t bother to read it. To me it was like… teenage vampire story—sooo Buffy. I liked Buffy a lot but I sort of grew out of it and all teenage vampire stories after Buffy were, in my opinion, unoriginal. By the time Twilight came out, I thought that fantasy novels about vampires were behind me so even if it was a big hit, I stayed away from it. Then the movie “New Moon” came out. Out of curiosity fueled by Lamielle’s eagerness for and constant talk of it, I hauled my husband to watch it with me and I have to say that it is by far the most dragging movie I’ve ever seen. It was like every scene lingers so long to kill air time. The whole time, I was like….common’, let’s move on to the next scene already!!!
I was so disappointed after watching the movie but I later realized that my disappointment is groundless. What did I expect? I didn’t know anything about it. I didn’t read the books. I didn’t even watch the first movie, Twilight. So what I did was, I bought all four books and read them all in the span of six days. After reading the first book I thought about how other people could compare it to Harry Potter!?! I mean, it lacked the richness that HP has. Too few characters, too few conflicts, too few everything…
But I continued reading until I’m done with all the books not only because I want to get the value for what I spent on them but also because I found some things likeable. The plot is not as fascinating as HP (which is of course not comparable to The Lord of the Rings) but a lot of lines were so well written. I noticed that as the story progresses, the author gets better with how she writes. She added some interesting characters and some interesting twists too. Some of these addition were too much and some were too late that they didn’t make sense anymore.
Overall, I am not so impressed with the plot but I’d give the author, Stephenie Meyer, the thumbs up for being able to write like that—vivid descriptions of the scenes and emotions. I don’t know if I’ll read the Twilight saga again (like I did with HP)…I am not holding my breath for it but I’ll keep them in my collection.
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